BDSM Practitioners Healthier Than Vanilla People

BDSM and Erotic writers are always on the look out for articles and discussions of an erotic nature, to my surprise i was trawling the net and came across an article entitled
BDSM Practitioners Healthier Than Vanilla People. This article explains how studies have been conducted within the BDSM lifestyle and Vanilla Lifestyle, to determine if BDSM practitioners are more physiologically healthier than their vanilla counterparts.

when I was researching Introducing Charlotte the first book in the series of Charlotte books, i spoke to hundreds of people who claimed to be players within the lifestyle. they indeed didn’t seem to come across as mentally imbalanced, on the contrary, the came across as well balance individuals with a lifestyle that they had chosen, not only a lifestyle of sexual preferences but a everyday lifestyle. where they live their lives based on, trust and control, two things that in their relationships works both ways. they both trust and they both control theirselves and well as each other. Talking openly with each other and friend within their community is what makes them feel safe and secure, no secrets that is for sure.

there is how ever a darker side of BDSM thats the side we all read about in the news papers and on the media. well in every lifestyle there is good, bad and extremes, but because the thought of being chained up is scary to most of us why can’t it be normal to someone else, after all they are not being malicious by doing so. and i have tried to show a reflection of the truer side of the BDSM lifestyle within my books. Indeed i have show the extremes and what can happen when things go wrong i have just left the soft fluffy fluffy side of the lifestyle thats for sure. But there is also a darker side to vanilla relationships too, i know plenty of people that have ended up being battered by their partners or mentally abused by them one way or another abuse is abuse in any lifestyle and is wrong on so many levels and we must never loose sight of that fact, that every day men and women leave, run or go into hiding because of some form of abuse. but we seem to accept that as not so much normal but part of life as it has happened within what society called “normal” life. yes we are sad for the person that has got battered and hurt, and yes we are shocked that anyone can do that to another person. but when it comes to the BDSM lifestyle, if something goes wrong and someone gets hurt the answer is simple, i have heard it said many a time “well what did they expect they were asking for it, they are all nutters” but in reality they were not asking to be hurt in such a way, and if they have just the same as a vanilla partner that is abusive the have chosen the wrong person. and this article on the report by Wismeijer points out that BDSM Practitioners Healthier Than Vanilla People. as i said i found the people within community very balanced, confident people with a zest for life and sexual practice that they are proud off being part off. i would also like to add that out of hundreds of people that i spoke to about the lifestyle they all said they would never tolerate abuse of any kind in out of the BDSM lifestyle.

full article can be found here

 

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Charlotte Hains left the UK for France after deciding she needed a change, taking on the huge project of renovating a house. In the UK her life consisted of getting up, going to work, coming home, going to bed, and just surviving. She now enjoys French life within the community of the village in which she lives, and feels privileged to be part of it. She describes her French neighbours as fantastic, offering her help in every way they can, and says she might have given up long ago if they hadn’t been so understanding.
With her house nearly finished she found herself with long nights and lots of thumb twiddling, reading anything she could get on her iPad. In honesty, she admits it was here that Fifty Shades of Grey caught her eye. Unbeknownst to her, her sister was reading it as well. Her sister thought that, because Charlotte has such a creative side, maybe she’d be able to write a book too. As a joke, Charlotte emailed her sister her stories, also written on her iPad. She researched blogs and BDSM sites on the internet, and so Introducing Charlotte came alive. Before she knew it, Charlotte had over 150,000 words which she’d sent by email in instalments to her sister, and there was more than enough for a book...or maybe even two!

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