Abiola Abrams, the author of "The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love," is not your mother's self-esteem guru. You've seen The Bombshell Whisperer's self-love and relationship laser coaching on networks from MTV to The CW and read her positive advice in columns from Essence to Match.com. Abiola wrote her debut novel Dare (Simon & Schuster), about a woman learning to love herself, while she was a BET host. Her award-winning art films and videos examine taboo social issues. As a journalist focusing on women's empowerment Abiola has spun her 'femergetic' magic as a writer, broadcaster and producer. The personal development coach and speaker is the founder of an award-winning blog and web TV series.